When I talk to people who are about to get into an arranged marriage, I often sense that many of them feel a strong sense of obligation and duty to their parents. Main is one knows the nature but observation regarding choosing the partner should be correct since it's your decision. Or who is using you as a sex objetct? Verdict: Arranged marriages where the couple has the luxury of leading an independent life with the occasional involvement of the extended family probably delivers the best of both the worlds. I like the idea of choice. It will not break it up.
But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. Rate this: +50 -10 Anu Patel said: Sep 19, 2018 Hello everyone according to me love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because marriage becomes only one time each person so its special for everyone and marriage all about depends on the two-person like dislike ambition efficiency and all that if two-person already knew each other, not facing future problem etc. The diagram proves that arranged marriages do work and are beneficial to couples. . My perception is candid about both ways of marriage. So family support is most necessary if not.
I also wish to know what is your take while working on the thesis in order to have further clarity on the direction you are aiming at regarding research. Similarly now a days an ideal family proposed marriage will differ from a conventional Arranged marriage provided both people finds comfortable when the majority of factors are synchronized prompting them to love each other prior to marriage! This helps them to understand each other in a better way. But in arrange Marriage Its difficult to select our better life partner,becos after marriage only they can understand each other. If you think they are going to be gentlemen, you are doing the biggest mistake of your life. Usually in India kids from family where parents fight or lack of trust exists they choose love marriage. Traditional Arranged Marriage Parents know best, so they should pick your spouse.
I ll try to explain with an example as we know very well arranged marriages are can be done by parents without knowing their children opinion, we can say its a family forced marriage, but they ll care about them before and after marriage also. If men cannot control themselves when they see a girl on the street, how do you think they behave when they see a bride in their bedroom??! Indian values are very much rooted and Indians believe that once married, only death parts them from their partners. Before marriage, they share their feelings and situations. I believe in the final success of marriage love or arranged hardly matters. This month my research assistant, Carlos Anguiano, heads off to Washington State University to begin a Ph. In Iran, for example, 99% of the arranged marriages that occur involved a bride payment. Which I believe affects how people respond to studies about marriage happiness.
Our relationship counsellors feel that both love and arranged marriages have their own set of challenges and require different forms of everyday tuning. After the first few months when the honeymoon stage is over and the mundane realities of marriage have set in, people begin to feel dissatisfied wondering. I definitely agree with few of my friends' comments that Arrange marriage is integration of families and couple but boss the couple has to live together. Though every couple take their own time to fall in love in an arranged marriage, yet it is a secured set up where you know what needs to be done next. I found your opinion about arrange marriage rather negative. Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them.
Arranged marriages happen when parents decide on which partner is best for their child in accordance with specific conditions that their children or they might have set. Rate this: +29 -15 Vishu said: Oct 26, 2018 Good evening everyone. Susan Sprecher Illinois State University , which assesses the essential features of passionate, ; 2 the Companionate Love Scale created by Dr. Then, the definition of being committed varies from person to person as does the definition of happiness. You will know how much sugar he likes in his tea, and you will be aware of which coffee she loves. On the other hand, arranged marriage starts off fairly lower than love marriage did, and slowly works its way up and doesn't decrease.
Marriage itself is a sacred bond that occurs not only between a bride and a groom but also between their respective families. Marriages should be based just on love and not like a business deal as with arranged marriages. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. Ms Sonali, how would you think about love marriages and how would you rate it against arranged one. The fact is that the both are grownup that they know what is their decision towards love marriage.
It will be complex as you will make it. The thrill of courtship and the feeling of your heart skipping a beat can never be replaced. Being in love was not how they measured marital satisfaction- or future marital satisfaction. What do statistics say about Arranged marriages? An arranged marriage reflects the actual idea that marriage is a contract and both parties know what to expect from the other. Even three times their age! In my view love marriage and arrange marriage both are ok. I prefer to love marriage because it's better to know your partner instead after getting married.
In arrange marriage no one knows about their partners well. Experts believe that in India most marriages are arranged. But according to my love marriage with parents consent is best. Rate this: +17 -5 Sourabh said: Dec 16, 2018 In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage they know each other they know their likes and dislikes their future plans their interest but in arrange marriage everything is very sudden and not get time to know each other and if it is like partners are not matching their mind perspective so they both have to face problems and in the end they get to go through divorce. Rate this: +80 -31 Taj Randhawa said: Jun 15, 2018 In my opinion, I prefer the arrange marriage then love marriage because this is not the marriage of 2 souls, this is to make a relationship between the 2 families.